Feeld

By OrlandoWild2 — January 27, 2026

If you're polyamorous or exploring ethical non-monogamy broadly, Feeld is the best app out there. Period. The community is thoughtful, progressive, and respectful. If you're specifically looking for couples to swing with, it's less effective. The user base skews toward individual connections rather than couple-to-couple matching. We use Feeld for our poly dating and other platforms for couple dates. Different tools for different purposes.

By LAswinglife — January 9, 2026

The Feeld app is gorgeous. Easily the best-looking dating app in the ENM space. Linking profiles as a couple works smoothly and the 'desires' feature lets you be upfront about what you want. Our issue is that conversations tend to fizzle. It attracts a lot of curious browsers who never commit to meeting. After 4 months, we had dozens of matches but only 2 actual dates. The signal-to-noise ratio is rough compared to lifestyle-specific platforms.

By sxycplmiami69 — November 23, 2025

Feeld is great if you're in a major city and looking for something beyond traditional swinging. The identity and orientation options are incredibly inclusive — you can specify exactly what you're looking for and who you are. The UI is beautiful, very Instagram-like. But outside NYC, LA, and London, the user base drops off sharply. We're in Portland and it's decent here, but our friends in smaller cities say it's useless. Also leans younger (25-35) which is great or limiting depending on your perspective.